Christian Working Mom Interview for
April 2007
Welcome
Blog Question
Online Bible Study
Interview
Welcome
We have so many CWM’s from all
over the world. So, welcome to everyone. I can’t
wait to meet you one day, if not here on this earth
then in heaven. Over 1400 women have filled out the
CWM Survey; again I’m amazed and overwhelmed
how God continues to grow our community. If you have
not filled out the CWM survey you can find it at www.christianworkingmom.com
and click on survey on the home page. Thanks to everyone
for filling it out.

Blog Question
The CWM blog can be found at http://christianworkingmoms.blogspot.com.
I recently posted a question about Mother’s
Day. Also, you can post questions and comments in
the Open Comments section. I have a question for you.
We have had some people that have had difficulties
posting to the blog or seeing the comments. If you
have had a problem posting to the blog or any problem
with the blog for that matter, please let me know.
I may need to move the blog if people are having difficulties.
So, please email me if you have had problems with
the blog. You can send an email to Kimberly@kimberlychastain.com
and put blog in the subject heading. I really do need
your help with this to determine if the blog needs
to be moved. Appreciate your help in advance.
Online Bible Study
The online Bible study can be found
at http://kimberlychastain.com/discussCWMU.
There are four lessons posted. Please post your answers
to the questions. Due to many improper posts from
spammers, I need to read the posts first and then
allow them to be posted. Sorry for this additional
step, but I don’t think any of us wants to read
porn posts or other spam posts. If you have any questions
about the online Bible Study, please feel free to
email me.
Interview
I appreciate Beth so much for taking
the time to be interviewed this month. Beth is a married,
30 year old CWM who lives in the United States. She
has a 10 month old girl. Beth is the Youth Minister
in her church.
Beth shares the following joys of being
a CWM: I love that I get to be with my daughter all
day long and work, too. I am so blessed to be able
to stay at home and still work full-time. Being a
Youth Minister is a different kind of career with
very flexible hours. It’s more of a lifestyle
than a job! It’s amazing to be able to watch
my little one grow up by being around teens and other
Christian adults and learning to be social in a safe
setting.
Beth shares the following difficulties
in being a CWM: Sometimes working at home makes it
hard to separate job work from house work. Often the
house is the last thing to be taken care of. Good
thing my husband doesn’t care much about that!
Thank you, Lord! I am supported by my husband, my
church staff, students and their families, which is
great. It is still sometimes hard because I feel divided.
When I am with students and my daughter is there,
I can’t focus on my students’ needs first.
It’s actually really benefited the ministry
because my volunteer staff has had to step up and
lead, which is good for all of us! I’ve been
at this church for almost 7 years, so it’s been
an interesting transition time.
Her favorite Bible Verse is: Philippians
4:13 I can do all things THROUGH HIM who gives me
strength. (I know I can’t do anything on my
own, but with Him ALL things are possible!)
God has been teaching Beth: Humility
in service. When I try to do ministry as a one woman
show, students slip through the cracks, my husband
and daughter don’t get the time they need with
me, and I end up worshipping the machine “I’ve
created.” It’s not about me. It’s
about Him and the relationships He’s called
me to not the programs I run or the house I live in.
Beth offers these words of Encouragement for other
Christian Working Moms: When your day’s been
non-stop drama, you feel like your time wasn’t
productive, and you are discouraged, go to sleep.
Sleeping is a wonderful way to put your trust and
control back into God’s hands. Start fresh the
next morning when His love and compassion are new
(Lamentations 3:22-23). You don’t have to keep
the world spinning; Someone else has that job already!
Beth also wants to share: Remember to
balance your priorities or the tight rope will snap.
God first, husband second, children third and everything
else fourth. If you don’t have time to pray
and hang with God, your day will void of divine influence,
no eternal influence will come from you. What else
really matters?
Beth thanks so much for reminding us
how important prayer is in our daily life. Spending
time with God is a necessity. May God continue to
use you to influence teenagers and their families.
Till next time,
Kimberly M. Chastain
Kimberly M. Chastain, MS, LMFT is
the Christian Working Mom Coach and a Licensed Marriage
and Family Therapist. She is the author of 2 ebooks
and an online Bible study. You can find more information
at
www.christianworkingmom.com.
For a free, initial coaching session send an email
to
free@kimberlychastain.com.